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Has a Girl ever asked you out?
I see this in movies (and suggested in a post here) but every time I think its total washed fake-reality made for tv bullsh*

as a reasonably attractive male, Ive personally never had a woman even come close to actually asking me out.

Am I jaded?
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They haven't, mostly because 90% of my life is spent in areas with men.


High school? Not a single girl in it.
Work? Most of them are in offices while I'm working out.


What other scenario is there? Hanging out at a bar?
Last edited by Sixtyfivekills; 8 Dec @ 5:50am
Back in school yes a few did, after that, only one but she already had kids, and like to run around so I turned her down. Honestly girls should ask more often, God knows half the people they try to flirt with can not tell that they are interested in them.
Originally posted by Sixtyfivekills:
They haven't, mostly because 90% of my life is spent in areas with men.


High school? Not a single girl in it.
Work? Most of them are in offices while I'm working out.


What other scenario is there? Hanging out at a bar?

starbucks is loaded with passing attractive woman, but fair point
Originally posted by steven1mac:
Back in school yes a few did, after that, only one but she already had kids, and like to run around so I turned her down. Honestly girls should ask more often, God knows half the people they try to flirt with can not tell that they are interested in them.

I agree
Originally posted by Spedzilla:
I see this in movies (and suggested in a post here) but every time I think its total washed fake-reality made for tv bullsh*

as a reasonably attractive male, Ive personally never had a woman even come close to actually asking me out.

Am I jaded?
Unfortunately, no
Yes
Ive turned down a few 😬

Felt bad turning down the 1 chick. Her wingwoman friend did an awesome job lol.

Another, i knew her well, and she was gorgeous. But she chews up men and spits them out. Not interested.
Yes, but I had servere social anxiety and rejected her in middle school. Also, had one ask me out to prom, but I dropped out of school. I changed highschools every 6 months almost across multiple states, so I gave up on friendships. A few others did in college, but I was already planning another transition in my life. One did in the military, but I knew I was changing jobs all the time. I also never got off work, sometimes working 48 hours straight which resulted in my pension.

Actually just a few days ago one women was pretty eager to talk to me and I just don't care because I would rather be alone. I have college to attend.

Longest relationship was 2 years, but I felt like an actor and wanted to end it.
Last edited by McFlurry Butts; 8 Dec @ 6:03am
Originally posted by Blunt Raps:
Yes
Ive turned down a few 😬

Felt bad turning down the 1 chick. Her wingwoman friend did an awesome job lol.

Another, i knew her well, and she was gorgeous. But she chews up men and spits them out. Not interested.

she’s a man eater
Originally posted by McFlurry Butts:
Yes, but I had servere social anxiety and rejected her in middle school. Also, had one ask me out to prom, but I dropped out of school. I changed highschools every 6 months almost across multiple states, so I gave up on friendships. A few others did in college, but I was already planning another transition in my life. One did in the military, but I knew I was changing jobs all the time. I also never got off work, sometimes working 48 hours straight which resulted in my pension.

Actually just a few days ago one women was pretty eager to talk to me and I just don't care because I would rather be alone. I have college to attend.

Longest relationship was 2 years, but I felt like an actor and wanted to end it.

the feeling like being an actor in a relationship also irks me
Once or twice Mostly I ask them out
Originally posted by Spedzilla:

the feeling like being an actor in a relationship also irks me

For me, it's a mixture of imposter syndrome and the fact that I am so used to being isolated that I don't need to seek validation.
Last edited by McFlurry Butts; 8 Dec @ 6:21am
Lilim 8 Dec @ 6:22am 
Originally posted by Spedzilla:
Has a Girl ever asked you out?

Let's spice up this thread a little bit :hp_kyu:.

If you're a guy, has another guy ever asked you out?

And if you're a girl, has another girl ever asked you out?
Originally posted by Spedzilla:
Originally posted by Blunt Raps:
Yes
Ive turned down a few 😬

Felt bad turning down the 1 chick. Her wingwoman friend did an awesome job lol.

Another, i knew her well, and she was gorgeous. But she chews up men and spits them out. Not interested.

she’s a man eater
Fr.
A damn shame.
Originally posted by Lilim:
Originally posted by Spedzilla:
Has a Girl ever asked you out?

Let's spice up this thread a little bit :hp_kyu:.

If you're a guy, has another guy ever asked you out?

And if you're a girl, has another girl ever asked you out?

Oddly enough yes and NO I politely declined That said my stance about that is nowadays a bit different not sure if I would decline now
Last edited by SpeedFreak1972; 8 Dec @ 6:26am
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